RCCG HOUSE FELLOWSHIP LEADER’S MANUAL SUNDAY 14TH OF JULY 2019

RCCG HOUSE FELLOWSHIP LEADER’S MANUAL SUNDAY 14TH OF JULY 2019

TOPIC: HUSBANDS, LOVE AND CHERISH YOUR WIVES.

HOUSE FELLOWSHIP ANTHEM
1. I love this family Of God,
So closely knitted into one,
They have taken me into their arms
And ‘am so glad to be
A part of this great family

2. I bless this family of God,
So greatly prospered by the Lord,
They have taken me into their arms
And ‘am so glad to be
A part of this great family

3. I know this family of God,
So deeply rooted in the word,
They have taken me into their arms
And ‘am so glad to be
A part of this great family

4. I see this family of God,
So highly lifted above all,
They have taken me into their arms
And ‘am so glad to be
A part of this great family

5. Come and join this family of God,
So highly favoured by the Lord,
They have taken me into their arms
And ‘am so glad to be
A part of this great family

*SUGGESTED TIME SCHEDULE*
10 minutes for Opening Prayer, Praise and Worship
10 minutes for Testimonies
15 minutes for Bible Discussion
15 minutes for General Prayers
10 minutes for Questions & Answers
5 minutes for Welcoming New Members
10 minutes for Announcements,
Offering,House Fellowship Anthem & Closing Prayers.

PRAYER POINT: Father, please help our home to be heaven on earth.

BIBLE PASSAGE: Ephesians 5:25-33
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

*INTRODUCTION*: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

John 3:16. Gid’s love towards us is unconditional. Regardless of whatever happened to His Son, He gave His Sin Jesus Christ as a ransom. Similarly, God expects the Husbands to give thus kind of unconditional and agape love to their wives.

Open Heaven 14th July 2019 Sunday

They also need to know that the head cannot move to the right or left without the support of the neck i.e. the wives. May the Holy Spirit Himself open up the inner eyes of all Husbands and give us the grace to obey Him in Jesus’ name. Amen.

*MEMORY VERSE*: Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. 1 Peter 3:7

*TEXT REVIEW*: Ephesians 5:25-33
i. It is a golden instruction for husbands to love their wives.
ii. The love Jesus has for the Church is a perfect example for us.
iii. Love gives all, it is sacrificial.
iv. When love is present, the home is spotless.
v. Husbands are to love their wives as themselves because you are both one not two.
vi. It is a great mystery. It is deeper than you can imagine, just play your part.

*LESSON OUTLINE*
*To love and to cherish means:*
1. Not willing to hurt someone. Ephesians 5:28-29, 33
2. Not willing to offend her. Ephesians 5:25, 29; Colossians 3:19.
3. To handle her with tender care. Ephesians 5:31-32
4. Not wanting her to suffer any loss.
5. Supporting her to achieve greater heights.
6. Taking good care of her children. 1 Tim. 5:8.
7. Provide for her, shelter, clothe and feed her. 1 Tim 5:8.
8. Do everything to protect her.
9. Provide spiritual succor for her and her Children.
10. The fruit of the spirit mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23 must be exhibited to the highest degree in dealing with wives.
11. To love wholeheartedly and give oneself to her. 1 Peter 3:7; Eph. 5:25.
12. To forgive and forget her sins to the husband. 1 Peter 3:9; Colossians 3:19b.

*Why do we need to cherish and live our wives?*
1. It is God’s commandment. 1 Peter 3:7, 9.
2. They ate weaker vessels (especially physically and emotionally). 1 Peter 3:7.
3. Without the wives, fulfilling God’s procreation purpose for mankind may not be possible. Genesis 1:28.
4. They are only God’s acceptable means of easing the husband’s tension, especially those with strong libidos. 1 Corinthians 7:5.
5. So that your prayers will not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7b.
6. They commit enormous energy, time and resources to keeping the home and children. In addition they still balance their abilities to take good care of their husbands. Proverbs 14:1.

*SUMMARY*: The presence of love will dove most challenges faced in the home today.

*CONCLUSION*: In any Home, where the Husband truly lobes and cherishes his wife, you will discover that their prayers will be answered and the peace of God will reign supreme. It is our prayer that Our Husbands will now love and cherish their wives more than ever before in Jesus’ name. Amen.

*ASSIGNMENT*: Husband go and make your home built on LOVE.

*PRAYER POINTS*
1. Father, plant the love of my wife into my heart afresh in Jesus’ name.
2. My Father, my Father, please keep my eyes away from every strange woman sent to attack my home.
3. Father, please release the auction of unconditional love upon our men to their wives passionately.
4. Father, send down your rain of financial breakthrough over our men enable them provide for their homes.
5. Father, please give me the grace to completely forgive and forget every wrong doing ever committed against me by my wife.
6. Father, as I love and cherish my wife, please do not allow any prince of Persia to hinder my prayers again.
7. Father, restore every home in RCCG where the devil has stolen the heart of their husbands and their wives are now suffering the consequences.
8. Father, you helped Daddy G.O. to love and cherish his wife, our Mother in Israel, Mummy G.O. ; please help our husbands do the same too.

*GOLDEN DIET FOR THE WEEK*
*MONDAY*: Hebrews 12:2. Father, please give the grace to focus on you so that I will be able to love my wife dearly.
*TUESDAY*: John 3:16 Father, please grant me the grace to show that unconditional and agape love to my wife and children.
*WEDNESDAY*: Philippians 4:19. Father, please supply me everything that I need to be a good husband to my wife.
*FRIDAY*: 1 Corinthians 13:2-13, 1 Corinthians 16:14; 1 Peter 4:8. Father, please give me the grace to love my wife wholeheartedly and also give myself to her.
*SATURDAY*: 1 Peter 3:7. Father, as I demonstrate my love towards my wife, please let all my prayers be answered quickly.
*SUNDAY*: 1 Peter 3:10. Father, please do not let me use my tongue negatively against my wife, Children etc.

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